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Urban Confessional Provides Free Listening on the Street

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March 27, 2024
January 18, 2019
Watch how this organization was created with one objective: helping a stranger by listening.

This week Grotto catches up with Benjamin Mathes, who runs a movement called Urban Confessional. People who are part of the movement (in 80 countries around the world) stand on street corners with signs that say "Free listening."

"It's a humbling experience to sit there with somebody," he shares. "Being heard is so close to being loved."

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Benjamin Mathes, founder of Urban Confessional and acting coach, Los Angeles, CA.

I'm Benjamin Mathes. I run a movement called Urban Confessional, where we stand on street corners in about 80 different countries around the world and we hold signs that say, "Free Listening" — and we just let people say whatever it is they need to say.

In 2011, I found myself in a really low place. I was looking to heal myself and ground myself through serving other people. One day, a homeless guy asked me for some money, and I didn't have any, but I said that I could pray with him. And so in the middle of the street, we sat there — and we're together, and I thought, This was really healing. I thought, What would be the closest thing to free prayer that I could do? And I thought, maybe free listening.

I've learned a lot more, I've connected more deeply with people. Some people will sit down with you for hours and share what's really deep inside with them, and it's a humbling experience to sit there with somebody while they do that. Being heard is so close to being loved, and most people cannot tell the difference, and I think that that's what we're doing.

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March 27, 2024
January 18, 2019
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