Watch

Healing from Pregnancy Loss as a Community

Creator:
Published:
March 27, 2024
October 12, 2019
This woman created a community to support healing after the stillbirth of her son.|Healing-After-Stillbirth-Square

Seven years ago, Stephanie Crawford had the worst experience of her life: her son, Simeon, was stillborn.

As she healed, she founded a community of women who had experienced similar loss so that they could gather, share, and process their grief together.

"I believe that God has a purpose for everyone in life, and sometimes we have to go through really hard situations in order to find our purpose," she shares.

Video Transcript

Stephanie Crawford: Seven years ago, I had the worst experience of my life. At 39-weeks pregnant, my baby's heart stopped beating. I gave birth to my stillborn son, Simeon Jelani Crawford. And I wasn't sure if I'd be able to live again.

In the face of her loss, Stephanie built a community focused on healing. She brought women together to share their stories and hardship.

Stephanie: So I believe that God has a purpose for everyone in life. And sometimes we have to go through really hard situations in order to find our purpose. I started a nonprofit for women who have experienced the same type of loss, so that they would be able to have what I didn't have: someone to help them see the light and live again.

When you just get women in a room, you find out that we all have a very similar story. One in four women has lost a child. Moms are affected, families are affected, people are affected by not being able to heal the right way. And so it went from me just saying, "Moms need to heal correctly," to really wanting to reach out to people and show them that it's possible to heal in a positive way.

Today, Stephanie has 17 godchildren from this community.

Stephanie: I have 17 godchildren. We've gone places and we all dress up the same. We wear the same shirts. And when people say, "What are you all dressed up for?" They are the first ones to say, "For our cousin,” or, “our god-brother. And we're here for him. He passed away, but we celebrate him every year. His name is Simeon. "

I knew that one day God would bless me with another child. Now I am 22-weeks pregnant with my “rainbow baby,” who will come exactly eight years after Simeon was stillborn.

Creators:
Grotto
Published:
March 27, 2024
October 12, 2019
On a related note...
Being Vegan Doesn't Look the Same for Everyone

Being Vegan Doesn't Look the Same for Everyone

Grotto

First-Hand Report of Humanitarian Crisis at the Border

First-Hand Report of Humanitarian Crisis at the Border

Grotto

'I Forgive Because I Can't Forget'

'I Forgive Because I Can't Forget'

Migs Mignanelli

How to Avoid 5 Common Decision-Making Mistakes

How to Avoid 5 Common Decision-Making Mistakes

Sarah Coffey

You are Not Powerless — 4 Ways to Respond to Racial Injustice

You are Not Powerless — 4 Ways to Respond to Racial Injustice

Grotto

Fear of Failure: What It Is and How to Overcome It

Fear of Failure: What It Is and How to Overcome It

Andrew Mentock

Having the Strength to Name and Overcome My Alcoholism

Having the Strength to Name and Overcome My Alcoholism

Erica Tighe Campbell

Free Download: 3 Nourishing and Budget-Friendly Recipes

Free Download: 3 Nourishing and Budget-Friendly Recipes

Hannah Chartier, Grotto

A New Mindset for Times of Uncertainty

A New Mindset for Times of Uncertainty

Grotto Shares

Uncovering the Untold History of Black Nuns in the US

Uncovering the Untold History of Black Nuns in the US

Grotto Shares

How This Form of Meditation Can Improve Your Wellbeing

How This Form of Meditation Can Improve Your Wellbeing

Alessandro DiSanto

6 Ways to Help a Friend Going Through Infertility

6 Ways to Help a Friend Going Through Infertility

Bethany Meola

4 Tips for Sharing a WFH Space with a Spouse

4 Tips for Sharing a WFH Space with a Spouse

Sarah Coffey

Giving Hope and a Future to Women with HIV/AIDS

Giving Hope and a Future to Women with HIV/AIDS

Grotto

5 Ways Anyone Can Support Kids in Foster Care

5 Ways Anyone Can Support Kids in Foster Care

Manda Carpenter

How to Have a Hygge Chicago Holiday

How to Have a Hygge Chicago Holiday

Jennon Bell Hoffmann

BBQ 101 for a Successful Summer Cookout

BBQ 101 for a Successful Summer Cookout

Ken Hallenius

Why We Need to Get Comfortable with Death

Why We Need to Get Comfortable with Death

Sophie Caldecott

A Christmas Eve Greeting

A Christmas Eve Greeting

Grotto

Helping Others Learn The Stock Market on Clubhouse

Helping Others Learn The Stock Market on Clubhouse

Grotto

newsletter

We’d love to be pals.

Sign up for our newsletter, and we’ll meet you in your inbox each week.