Watch

Healing from Pregnancy Loss as a Community

Creator:
Published:
March 27, 2024
October 12, 2019
This woman created a community to support healing after the stillbirth of her son.|Healing-After-Stillbirth-Square

Seven years ago, Stephanie Crawford had the worst experience of her life: her son, Simeon, was stillborn.

As she healed, she founded a community of women who had experienced similar loss so that they could gather, share, and process their grief together.

"I believe that God has a purpose for everyone in life, and sometimes we have to go through really hard situations in order to find our purpose," she shares.

Video Transcript

Stephanie Crawford: Seven years ago, I had the worst experience of my life. At 39-weeks pregnant, my baby's heart stopped beating. I gave birth to my stillborn son, Simeon Jelani Crawford. And I wasn't sure if I'd be able to live again.

In the face of her loss, Stephanie built a community focused on healing. She brought women together to share their stories and hardship.

Stephanie: So I believe that God has a purpose for everyone in life. And sometimes we have to go through really hard situations in order to find our purpose. I started a nonprofit for women who have experienced the same type of loss, so that they would be able to have what I didn't have: someone to help them see the light and live again.

When you just get women in a room, you find out that we all have a very similar story. One in four women has lost a child. Moms are affected, families are affected, people are affected by not being able to heal the right way. And so it went from me just saying, "Moms need to heal correctly," to really wanting to reach out to people and show them that it's possible to heal in a positive way.

Today, Stephanie has 17 godchildren from this community.

Stephanie: I have 17 godchildren. We've gone places and we all dress up the same. We wear the same shirts. And when people say, "What are you all dressed up for?" They are the first ones to say, "For our cousin,” or, “our god-brother. And we're here for him. He passed away, but we celebrate him every year. His name is Simeon. "

I knew that one day God would bless me with another child. Now I am 22-weeks pregnant with my “rainbow baby,” who will come exactly eight years after Simeon was stillborn.

Creators:
Grotto
Published:
March 27, 2024
October 12, 2019
On a related note...
This Neighborhood Goes All-Out with Christmas Lights for a Good Cause

This Neighborhood Goes All-Out with Christmas Lights for a Good Cause

Grotto

"Living Water"

"Living Water"

Judith Sornberger

What to Know About Dating Someone with Depression

What to Know About Dating Someone with Depression

Emily Bouch

Looking for More Joy and Gratitude? Try a ‘Hedonic Reset’

Looking for More Joy and Gratitude? Try a ‘Hedonic Reset’

Chris Hazell

Why Silence is Paramount for Health (& Happiness)

Why Silence is Paramount for Health (& Happiness)

Maria Walley

Two Truths and a Lie: St. Bibiana

Two Truths and a Lie: St. Bibiana

Grotto

Meatless Friday Recipe: Tortilla de Patatas

Meatless Friday Recipe: Tortilla de Patatas

Grotto

Quarantine Doesn’t Have to Threaten Your Marriage

Quarantine Doesn’t Have to Threaten Your Marriage

Erin Ramsey-Tooher

Our Tips for Making the Most of Thanksgiving

Our Tips for Making the Most of Thanksgiving

Grotto

5 Lessons I Learned from a Two-Year-Old Burn Victim

5 Lessons I Learned from a Two-Year-Old Burn Victim

Liz Palmer

Employing Adults with Autism: The Right Decision

Employing Adults with Autism: The Right Decision

Grotto

Podcast S1 | Ep. 4: Finding Empathy

Podcast S1 | Ep. 4: Finding Empathy

Grotto

You Have 4,000 Weeks to Live — How Are You Spending Them?

You Have 4,000 Weeks to Live — How Are You Spending Them?

Maria Walley

Pastry Chef Makes "Dream Cakes" for Kids with Critical Illness

Pastry Chef Makes "Dream Cakes" for Kids with Critical Illness

Grotto

Why Thomas Merton's Example is Worth Your Attention

Why Thomas Merton's Example is Worth Your Attention

Gregory K. Hillis

Is Your Friend in Recovery? Here’s What They Need From You

Is Your Friend in Recovery? Here’s What They Need From You

Julia Hogan-Werner

How Do You Heal From Medical Trauma?

How Do You Heal From Medical Trauma?

Patrick Cruitt

Answering Violence with Forgiveness

Answering Violence with Forgiveness

Grotto

Boxer Mike Lee: From Pain to Purpose

Boxer Mike Lee: From Pain to Purpose

Grotto

Our Food Sources Can Help Us Build a Better World

Our Food Sources Can Help Us Build a Better World

Janelle Peregoy

newsletter

We’d love to be pals.

Sign up for our newsletter, and we’ll meet you in your inbox each week.